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Showing posts with label love guide. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love guide. Show all posts

Saturday, February 27, 2010

LOVE IDEAS

01.Watch the sunset together.
02. Back rubs and massages. 
03.Hike to the top of a mountain for a picnic. 
04.Take a rowboat out on a lake at sunset. 
05.Kiss at every chance you get. 
06.Whisper to each other. 
07.Cook for each other. 
08.Hide a teeny, tiny gift somewhere on your body and make him find it.
09.Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with black light.
10.Kiss every part of their body. 
11.Sleep together.
12.Dress for a formal party, and then walk down the streets singing love songs. 
13.Buy gifts/flowers for each other. 
14.Find out their favorite cologne or perfume and wear it every time you’re together. 
15.Wear his clothes.

Sunday, February 14, 2010

 First Date Tips

Dating can be tough and first dates can be painful. So what are you to do? Here is a list of dating tips to start the year out right!
  • Meet your date out and drive yourself. If you want to bail out early, you won't be trapped. Also, when you have your own car. If things work out, you won't have any worries about inviting your date in or not. This helps protect you from your own impulses, because what's worse then "will he respect me in the morning?" is "How much will I hate myself when I wake up?". Also when you have your own car, no need to worry about safety, your date does not know where you live. This protects you from a date turned bad turning in to a stalking nightmare.
  • Keep the date simple. You're nervous enough without making a big show, plus you don't want to lock yourself in to an evening you won't enjoy.
  • Men, end the date first. You will make yourself stand out.
  • Women, don't wear anything low cut or short. It sounds like an old cliché but your first date knows very little about the woman you are. He will take you at face value and you don't want to give the wrong impression. A friend of mine went out for dinner on a blind date. She is a very conservative women, who really likes to take her time in relationships. All of us who know her know this about her. Her date didn't. She went out on the date wearing a sexy low cut cocktail dress. They went to dinner, had a wonderful evening, and when he walked her to her door, he pounced on her! She was of course surprised and upset, but her date didn't know her, he just took her at face value.
  • Wear clothing that you are comfortable and confident in. First dates are uncomfortable enough without a tight belt biting you around the waist.
  • Men, be specific about where you are going. This will make the date more comfortable, and will prevent her from wearing a cocktail dress when you are taking her bowling.
  • Ask about your date. Each of us knows we are the most interesting subject :) But the most interesting conversationalists are people who ask about others. Great light topics are work, hobbies, sports, kids (if they have any). If you are really stuck for topics to talk about, and questions to ask, on the Dateable.com site, in our advice corner, under romance, single life, we have a great article by Penelope Frohart author of "The Book of Fabulous Questions" called "What do I talk about on a date?". She offers some great advice. http://dateable.com/advicecorner/
  • Easy on the perfume. You want to knock his socks off, but you don't want to knock him out!
  • Don't forget to use mouthwash before you go out.
  • Don't order sloppy food. If you are not paying for what you order, try to stay in the middle of the menu.
  • Keep the conversation light! Don't talk or ask about old boyfriends, girlfriends, or ex-spouse. This is a first date, not a therapy session.
  • Find out about your dates eating habits before you plan the evening. Make sure you choose a place where they will be able to find something to eat.
  • Be attentive! There is nothing worse then a date peering over your shoulder making you feel as if they are looking for something better.
  • If you are not paying be considerate of what you order. Try to stay in the middle of the menu.
  • And last, but not least, have fun and be yourself!

Useful Flirting Tips and Advice

Discover how to flirt to attract using body language and other tips

It is rather difficult to be romantic without first flirting.  What exactly is flirting and how can you adapt some flirting into your own romantic moods and play?  To begin, you don’t want to be too aggressive.  Start with very friendly gestures and once you have gotten those moves down, and then go for the romantic flirting!
Flirting is a frame of mind:
Be self-confident and do not be afraid to take risks.
Be enthusiastic about romance and be positive!

Start a sexy conversation:
Start with a simple, opening line by saying hello.
Talk about anything at all, whatever will get the romance going.

Enjoy yourself and have fun:
Be playful, light-hearted and above all, be spontaneous.
Show that you can be vulnerable.

Make good use of all props:
Always use a prop.
Props will get the conversation started naturally. They encourage conversation and others will want to start talking to you.
Great props are: pets, children, great jewelry, a wonderful scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite sports team’s emblem, an interesting book or magazine.

Play host:
Take the lead by taking on the role of host.
Do not be the passive person in waiting, but rather the lead.

Introduce yourself first:  
Move closer to the person you want to meet and introduce yourself confidently!
Listen-up:
Everyone loves to be heard and when you are a good listener your partner will be drawn to you.
Make bold eye contact:
Look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then look away. You don’t want to stare!
Pay a genuine compliment:
Your partner will be pleased and will warm up to you more.
Show a beautiful smile:
You will look so much more approachable. Everyone is attracted to a genuine and heartfelt, smile.
So there you go!  These are all ground-breakers when wanting to approach someone with romance.  We must always be mindful of the fundamentals. 
When we just dive right in, unexpected, we can turn our loved one off.  Go slow, a step at a time and feeling confident, approach with your best romance moves.


Saturday, February 13, 2010


 Fantastic Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas…

1. Express Your Love with Gratitude

The boyfriend and I thank each other even for the littlest things we do. We mean it every time. Saying “thank you” and these amazing suggestions via Dani will help you express your love.

2. Single? Give Yourself Some Love, too!

These are perfect gift ideas for yourself if you have no one special this V-Day. I’d go for the jewelry. “Go and buy your own damn ring.”

3. Love Songs

When was the last time someone gave you a mix tape? I have never received one in my entire life. For real. This gift is perfect for a perfect combination of vintage and whimsy.

4. For Your Man

Closet Therapy gives us amazing ideas on what to get your guy this Valentine’s Day. From super fancy to low-key, you’ll love her suggestions.

5. For Your Lady

I’d go for the jewelry as well. However, that red and black lace number is tempting as well. Send the link to your guy and drop obvious hints regarding what you want.